Comments on: self love http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/ "what is this - a rapist's paradise?!" Sat, 14 Jan 2012 15:17:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: waylan http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-4210 waylan Thu, 17 Sep 2009 18:08:42 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-4210 interesting to see you posting this :/ interesting to see you posting this :/

]]> By: jenn http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2710 jenn Wed, 04 Mar 2009 04:19:24 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2710 @nico it's probably true in some regard. there are certain things that should remain a sorta mystery @jenny thanks for reading and leaving a comment! this contingency of women sounds like a nightmare, esp for you. how can you stand it? and you know, you can still put a sticker on your ass and perch upon a block of ice in the supermarket, but it doesn't have to be selling yourself out necessarily. cuz you got it goin on! @nico it’s probably true in some regard. there are certain things that should remain a sorta mystery

@jenny thanks for reading and leaving a comment! this contingency of women sounds like a nightmare, esp for you. how can you stand it? and you know, you can still put a sticker on your ass and perch upon a block of ice in the supermarket, but it doesn’t have to be selling yourself out necessarily. cuz you got it goin on!

]]> By: jenny http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2690 jenny Wed, 25 Feb 2009 22:18:33 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2690 i sat and read the whole. the article is insightful and really entertaining. i think maybe you should come down here and visit me because there is a large contingnecy of women whose way of attracting a mate is to make themselves look like barbie dolls. blonde, pastic and without imagination. but the women who are younger (and have not acquired wealth to go under the knife) attract their mate by dumbing down their intelligence. i'll not lie, when i act more aloof i make a shitload more money. but sometimes i snap to and am really disgusted with myself. there is sense that to be desired makes you feel attractive, but to what extent? i mean, should i just put a sticker on my ass and put myself on a piece of ice next to decorative kale at the meat market? thanks for sharing the article! i sat and read the whole. the article is insightful and really entertaining.
i think maybe you should come down here and visit me because there is a large contingnecy of women whose way of attracting a mate is to make themselves look like barbie dolls. blonde, pastic and without imagination. but the women who are younger (and have not acquired wealth to go under the knife) attract their mate by dumbing down their intelligence. i’ll not lie, when i act more aloof i make a shitload more money. but sometimes i snap to and am really disgusted with myself.
there is sense that to be desired makes you feel attractive, but to what extent? i mean, should i just put a sticker on my ass and put myself on a piece of ice next to decorative kale at the meat market?
thanks for sharing the article!

]]> By: nico http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2672 nico Sun, 22 Feb 2009 06:03:49 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2672 started to read this a couple times, and then thought better of it--it's funny, but it's also why I have problems with deciding for against the phD thing: the more you study a thing, the less excitement it holds. erm, pun really, really not intended. I'll fumble blindly in the dark with the covers over my head, thankyouverymuch! started to read this a couple times, and then thought better of it–it’s funny, but it’s also why I have problems with deciding for against the phD thing: the more you study a thing, the less excitement it holds. erm, pun really, really not intended.

I’ll fumble blindly in the dark with the covers over my head, thankyouverymuch!

]]> By: jenn http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2660 jenn Tue, 17 Feb 2009 20:42:22 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2660 @andrea: thanks for commenting! i'm glad you like, figured you'd have something to say about it. the article just struck a chord with me. i wish everyone understood, esp guys. good ol' good vibes. i'm surprised there's no counterpart in LA? @tim: haha, OF COURSE you'd have something to say. @andrea: thanks for commenting! i’m glad you like, figured you’d have something to say about it. the article just struck a chord with me. i wish everyone understood, esp guys. good ol’ good vibes. i’m surprised there’s no counterpart in LA?

@tim: haha, OF COURSE you’d have something to say.

]]> By: tim sturges http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2653 tim sturges Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:18:28 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2653 Oh god the words of joy ran through my pores when I read this article. Finally a woman who embraces our three million years of sexual evolution. There is true happiness, joy in this revelation...now if all the silly, Whole Foods eating, REI-wearing ladies would just kick off their Birkenstocks and read, "Save the Males," written by no less than a very empowered woman. Thank you Jenn, you've done your sisters a favor with this one. Oh god the words of joy ran through my pores when I read this article. Finally a woman who embraces our three million years of sexual evolution. There is true happiness, joy in this revelation…now if all the silly, Whole Foods eating, REI-wearing ladies would just kick off their Birkenstocks and read, “Save the Males,” written by no less than a very empowered woman. Thank you Jenn, you’ve done your sisters a favor with this one.

]]> By: jenn http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2651 jenn Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:17:45 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2651 @andrew: yeah, right, sorta. @andrew: yeah, right, sorta.

]]> By: Andrew http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2650 Andrew Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:01:06 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2650 So all I have to do to score chicks is desire them? Sweet! Now I have a new game plan. So all I have to do to score chicks is desire them? Sweet! Now I have a new game plan.

]]> By: Andrea http://www.thebittermelon.org/2009/02/12/self-love/comment-page-1/#comment-2648 Andrea Fri, 13 Feb 2009 02:36:15 +0000 http://www.thebittermelon.org/?p=345#comment-2648 whoa! saxy. this has been on my to-read list since it was published, but i never find the right time or situation to actually finish reading it. it's not "no shit" so much as it is, "whoa, why hasn't somebody put this into words before? magnifico!" i did read the much shorter, related article written by the same Bergner, Daniel. sex science is rawesome. there's a museum of sex in NYC, i hear. and i do miss Good Vibes. only in the Bay Area. this is kind of wrong: http://www.traumaunit.iwarp.com/images/saxy_lady_2a.jpg whoa! saxy. this has been on my to-read list since it was published, but i never find the right time or situation to actually finish reading it.

it’s not “no shit” so much as it is, “whoa, why hasn’t somebody put this into words before? magnifico!”

i did read the much shorter, related article written by the same Bergner, Daniel.

sex science is rawesome. there’s a museum of sex in NYC, i hear. and i do miss Good Vibes. only in the Bay Area.

this is kind of wrong:
http://www.traumaunit.iwarp.com/images/saxy_lady_2a.jpg

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